“When The Student Is Ready, The Teacher Will Appear”

Hi Friends and Colleagues,

Have you ever been struck with an idea that’s was so profound but yet so simple that it actually hurled you to action?

Well, it just happened to me—hence writing this post.

I know you’ve heard this cliché: when the student is ready, the teacher will appear. Sadly enough for years I didn’t really understand what that meant.

Several years back a big ‘ol light bulb smacked me and meaning became crystal clear. I can’t recall exactly what I’d been toiling over but all of the sudden the answer to my problem came to my aid. 

It’s funny as a youngster nearly everyday life is huge. You live, learn; explore new ideas and exciting frontiers, and all of the sudden you wake up older—much older.

Where have all the fun, excitement and adventure gone? It’s also like as you get older your creative juices sort of dry up and evaporate.

It’s sad. But here’s the good news you can wake up that creative energy you once possessed and start living life to the absolute best—again.

A few folks keep life at full tilt no matter their age. A few examples I can think of are Richard Branson, the billionaire who’s borderline daredevil and according to stories I’ve read an all-around decent guy.

Then you’ve got Clayton Makepeace, multi-millionaire copywriter whose passions are roaring through the mountains in his tricked out new Porsche and tooling along with his wife (each on their big block Harleys)—just to name a few. If you read his emails, you know clearly life for and everyone surround him couldn’t be better. 

Another prime example would be John Carlton another mega-millionaire copywriter who lives life deeply by cranking out tunes on his classic Fender guitar or simply sharing insights and stories from his blog. John is one of my favorite teachers and I love reading his blog. Here again, you know he’s figured out how to make life a holiday on earth.

So what do these guys and a few others have in common besides lots of money?

It’s simple. They’re all tuned to all the good stuff life has to offer. They’re living life deep—without hesitation, without regrets, and at full throttle. These guys are moving forward all the time.

But here’s the thing. From reading and learning about them (and I suspect others who live the “good life”, living life to the fullest is not all about money.

Yes, these guys expect to win in all areas— financially professionally, and spiritually.

Yes they appreciate the fact money can provide comforts and put them in a position where they are able to give back to so many others (all of these guys each in their own way do this regularly).

Best I can see, money (and lots of it) is simply a by-product of living life passionately. Maybe I’m waaay off base here but the way I see it the more passion and purpose you have coupled with action and persistence, the more resources (i.e. cash, like-minded people, materials, etc) you attract. It’s a natural phenomenon. 

These guys seemed to have discovered a single universal truth: passion, action and persistence equal living deep.

And I’ve been noticing something very weird—if you really dig deep and find your passion, your purpose and take immediate action (even if you’re not completely ready) and persist then the universe comes to your aid.

This is so cool. Because for years, I’ve been “preparing” but never really putting the full wind in my sails. And this was killing me. I never really “moved” or completed anything. I was like a ship without any sails or rudder. And when you stay in the harbor too long you begin to attract baggage that keeps you moored.

At some time you must scrap off the barnacles set a course and set sail. It may take a while but you’ll soon see that port of call you set out for. And it’s great along the way!

My barnacles were thinking I needed to possess a master’s knowledge of the task at hand before setting sail. This is bullshit. Certainly you need to be prepared and do your due diligence but I learned wealthy folks don’t spent eternity getting ready—they seize the opportunity and move forward correctly their course as needed.

Passion, action and persistence is key to living life deep thus enjoying all the natural perks like excellent friendships, experiences, and yes money that come with it.

Learning how to wake up the student in me has been one the most profound life lessons I’ve ever learned. It’s absolutely amazing how the universe so willing shares her secrets with open arms—if you’ll just let her.

One of the most difficult parts (at least for me) has been finding my true passion and purpose. With all the possibilities life can hand out it can be daunting to select which one to pursue.

This is not to say that I have so many talents. It’s that I have so many interests.

Perhaps you too have many interests and find it difficult to settle down to only one. Don’t let this get in your way. 

Think about it. You could do or be anything your heart desires—and the possibilities are nearly endless. And if you really want you don’t have to settle on just one vocation.

One example that comes to mind is Russell Conwell who started out as a lawyer, writer and later became a Baptist minister. Later he founded Temple University and become its first president. Who says you couldn’t follow a similar path of multiple passions.

The point is to allow the universe to fuel your full potential and go with it. We are all unique and each has a purpose to fulfill. Find it and set a course of action—even if you’re not completely “ready.”

Why not take just a few quiet moments and think really think about your true talents, your passions and desires. Write these down. Don’t fit money into the equation—just reflect on what you love doing. Let your mind serve you to its fullest—without any judgment and see what happens.

I’d enjoy hearing your comments. So let me know how things turn out right here in this post. 

Warmly,

Emette E. Massey

How To Repair The Sole of Your Business

Dear Biz Whiz Friend,

You pound the pavement each and every day and I know you’re hurting. You’re hurting real bad. The sole of your business has got no soul. And that’s what I’m going to help you fix today.

I remember the lesson like it was yesterday though it was well over a decade ago. As usual I was pouring over a few select marketing books that I’d stumbled upon. Then all of the sudden the light clicked on and hit me like a ton of bricks.

The question of “why some businesses struggle and some seem to prosper almost effortlessly?” tormented me for quite some time. I knew the answer was there somewhere but just couldn’t seem to latch on to it . . . until that fateful day.

A good buddy told me, “Em, you need to adjust your altitude.” It’s true. We as mere mortals oftentimes fly low, do the minimum and just scrape by. Likewise we get minimum rewards and  . . . just scrape by.

And in my humble opinion your attitude sets your altitude. To take it a bit further your attitude towards your prospects can be the fine line between just scraping by to flying high in the lap of prosperity.

Take a serious look at your competitors and peers. Are they really 100 times smarter than everyone else? Probably not. And if you really check the stats, most businesses do not possess any significate technical advantages, or special connections nor any other real advantages.

So what’s the difference? What makes some businesses flourish and others flounder?

It’s a small but powerful strategy that’s practically hidden by most business. It involves a simple twist in attitude. It’s what marketing mastermind Jay Abraham calls the “Strategy of Preeminence.” It’s the difference between a customer and a client.

How do you define “customer” and “client?”

Checking in with old man Webster (you know the word guru dude that started the whole definition thang) you’ll find this:

Client: “one that is under the protection of another”

Customer: “someone who buys goods or services from a business”

Can you see the difference?

Pay particular attention to how client is defined. What does under the protection of another mean, anyway?

For our purposes here it means to act in your client’s best interest. You learn exactly what her needs, problems, and struggles are and you find a solution.

You don’t sell them stuff just to fill up your coffers. Yes, I understand we as biz owners are in business to make a profit. I’m totally cool with that. But in this client relationship our goal is to become their go-to source.

On the other hand, it’s your duty; it’s your obligation to provide your clients with the proper solutions . . . and nothing less to cure their pain. You want to be their trusted advisor.

But in order to do this you must be tuned in to their needs and wants. Top shelf marketers make it a point to find out this information out and use it to provide excellent service to their clients.

Get on the phone, go out in the field and talk to your prospects, customers and clients. Get to really know your clients and ask them about their business, their operation and their life.

Act like you really give a damn about your client’s well-being and you’ll soon see a huge shift in your business relationships. This leads to huge profit breakthroughs as well.

Be Different . . . It Pays

I’m fairly certain that I’ve talked about how you can separate your biz from all your competitors (if not, the shame on me).

But part of bringing your A game to the plate is figuring out what unique advantages or benefits you provide your customers. These should be things that no old else can provide.

What I’m hinting at here is called a unique selling proposition affectionately referred to as a “USP”.

You must figure out what the most powerful benefit or advantage you can offer your clients. A great way to do this is simply finding out what benefit or advantage your clients want most. Then position your product or service as having a unique benefit that they are not getting from your competitors.

Once you nailed your USP down make sure you incorporate into all of your marketing messages so your prospects will know the advantages of doing business with you.

These are just a couple subtle tweaks to ramp up sales and create massive amounts of goodwill. Your clients will love it and you’ll reap the rewards.

Till next time . . .

Keep on Truckin’

Emette Massey

“I Ate Some Cornbread and Pinto Beans Last Night and Blew Up 10 Minutes Later” . . . and other Useless Facebook Postings

Dear Biz whiz Friend,

Come on, what are you thinking? Some of the things I see on Facebook are nothing shy of ridiculousness. Waaay too much information . . . and useless information at that! Need I say, some things should not be said in public or at least on social media.

Sometimes I’m tempted to close down my Facebook account.

Hey, don’t get me wrong. Yes, I am a strong believer in Freedom of speech but there’s a time and place for everything! 

Too much information,right? What possible value comes from this crap? 

Do your readers, fans, and friends really give a rat’s ass what you had for supper? Or that you are hung over and puking your guts out? Or the preacher got caught screwing the teenage gal down the street, or  . . .? 

I’m thinking . . .

“HELL NO WE DON”T, or Do We?”

Ok, simmer down, simmer down a bit here. I promise that I am not going to rant on and on about this! That’s no better and you reading all the useless Facebook posts, right?

Besides, it’s not fair to you my dear reader. And ya’ll don’t wanna hear me rant in the first place. 

The real gem of Facebook is the human side of this mad, mad social media. And yes many of us DO want to know about the entire goings on (be it very personal or superficial). Only you can answer that.

These Facebook timeline submissions let you see a glimmer of what is on people’s minds . . . despite how scary this can be it can be great for your marketing toolkit.

In order to sell your stuff you gotta tune into to your prospects self-interest. And Facebook can be a great place to tap into what’s on people’s mind. You know what their problems, concerns and hotspots are.

But Keep This In Mind: Many of the Facebook friends may not be your target market. But someone in the world of Facebook is and you can reach them easily. I’m getting a little off base here. Reaching prospects via Facebook is not our topic today.

Today storytelling is our subject. And we as marketers do want to share interesting stories that appeal to our prospects basic instincts.

Most of us want to read and hear about human interest stories. We do want to hear about your successes or how you kicked that drug addiction demon’s ass or you discovered something really cool (that your friend’s would dig). 

During my little Facebook ‘rant’, a little flicker of light sparked a constructive thought about storytelling. 

While studying copywriting I learned that many veteran marketers refer to storytelling this as “the million dollar step” in writing killer sales copy.

It’s no surprise. You’ll find that most top gun marketers and copywriters all have a distinct voice and style in their writings. Once you’re hip, you can spot it a mile away.

So you’re job as a top-flight marketer is to develop your own ‘voice’ and use it in all of your marketing communications. And shortly I’ll explain how you can do this . . . easily. 

But first dig back into your personal timeline and think about how a good story fueled your enthusiasm for learning a new task, or how it piqued your interest . . . and kept your interested during the entire time that you listened to the story.

Many of my family members are great storytellers. My grandfather especially told great stories. As I write this, I reminisce of the many times that I’d sit by the fireplace listening for hours as he spun anecdotes of the Great Depression, the difficulties of finding steady paychecks, working odd but interesting jobs like building bridges and barracks for the US Military (he was a carpenter and cabinetmaker), and life growing up the youngest and only male sibling during the early part of the 1900’s.

Storytelling has been used for ages to entertain, educate and yes . . . sell stuff! Great storytelling goes hand and hand with finding your writing “voice.” You should start think about your “voice” before write a single word of copy.

You’ll notice a certain personality, tone and style in nearly every high-end marketer or entrepreneur writings. This is their “voice”. And their voice is like a tossed salad of credibility, attitude and their personality.

And why is this good? For starters, you become the “go-to guy” (as my mentor John Carlton says) in your market place. You’ll soon become the “chosen one” that prospects and clients trust and want to do business with.  

How To Develop Your Story Telling Chops.

I’ll be the first to tell you that I’m not a natural story teller. Way back in the day as a young teenager, all the stories I so carefully crafted and delivered to my Mom as to why I missed curfew failed miserably. 

Heck I even tried to learn from the great Eddie Haskell from Leave It To Beaver but that was useless. . . Mom could see right through me and knew I tried to BS her. 

I learned later in life that our beloved Eddie was more of a BS artist that a story teller. And adults can easily tell the difference.  

So, even though storytelling did not come naturally to me, I did finally get the jist of telling a decent story, thanks in large by awesome mentors like John Carlton and Gary Halbert (among many others). 

The key to telling good stories in your sales copy, articles and all your other marketing materials is pay attention to what’s going on around you. Read good fiction (essentially a long story written out) and see how the writer tells the story. Copy out by hand proven direct response ads. 

I had to learn how to tell and write good stories. Through practice and more practice I got better. I am still learning and continue to hone my chops. 

One short style guide I refer to occasionally is The Elements of Style (for general writing help) by William Stunk & E.B. White. It’s a great writer’s tool to have on your bookshelf.

Hey, wake up! I learned to start paying attention, really seeing what was going on in my life and others around me. You know ‘wake up and smell the roses’ sort of thing. What helped me was to keep a written journal of my daily events. Use all of your senses . . . take in all the colors of your world . . . smell the crisp, fresh salt air while you’re at the beach, and taste the spices as you bite into that steak.

Read some good fiction. To be completely honest I really didn’t read much fiction. I am naturally more of a non-fiction “how-to” reader. Now I mix it up, reading both fiction and non-fiction. I learned many fiction writers are great story tellers . . . and they write their stories down. In fact many of the greatest fiction authors started out as copywriters. So how could I lose by reading some good fiction? 

So now I read fiction as well as my usual nonfiction. Some of my favorites are Ray Bradbury and John D. MacDonald. But when friends recommend others I at least give them a try. 

Copy (literally hand write out) proven ads. This powerful step makes a neurological imprint to your brain. So you’re essentially “writing” killer, sales generating ads. Many top-shelf copywriters did this important step during their early days of learning how to write sales copy. You’ll find many of today’s marketing teachers (and practitioners) recommend that their students do this while learning how to write copy. 

Alrighty then. Now you are ‘armed and dangerous’ with a few great ways to inject ‘voice and style’ in your marketing materials. Give these ideas a go and see if they don’t improve your marketing efforts. 

Until next edition, stay cool!

Warmly,

Emette Massey

P.S. Want a electronic copy of The Elements of Style? Just hit me up at eemassey@yahoo.com with the word “Elements” in the subject line (so I know that it’s not spam) and I’ll email you a copy for your library.